After many years of sensing other peoples discomfort with who I am, how and the way I live my life... I learned to filter and get small to help those around me feel "comfortable." That meant that I (kind of, sometimes) kept my mouth shut, didn't say what I really felt or gave you the watered down version. Because it was hard being the #CatsTongue. What the hell is that you might think? The Cats Tongue is 

Here comes the cats tongue again! I'm here to share my personal opinion about all the mixing of events and how some are incredible and some #IMHO are NOT! Obviously we are all taking witness to the

Bringing Sensuous Revival to the world has me brushing through all that I am with a fine tooth comb. This is exciting and humbling while at times is also challenging and transforming. As I sit here writing this blog entry... I'm reminded of one of my favorite teachers, Seane Corn and how she 

​I figured this would be an easy entry because I'm sitting here Googling the definition of the word "Coach" vs "Ally." I'm doing this because I don't like the word coach. Maybe it is just me (I know that isn't true anymore lol) but when I think of the title coach;

Learning how to make love is part of the path for most people on this planet. And we somehow all figure it out and don't die in the process. To think back about the awkwardness of being young and "in love." Which is so silly to me now as I reflect back. Not because it was bad or gross or any of that but because ​

​Fucked up title right?! I know. And yet it took me over twenty years to realize that this was really how I learned about sex. From the guy who "loved" me and I would spend the rest of my life with. Good lord I'm so glad none of that was true! He was also the guy who