Fuck the box | I'm out!
I am done fitting (or squeezing) into a box... You know the ones like- woman, daughter, mom, friend, straight, gay, happy, sad, depressed, married, divorced... WHATEVER!
> Those limitations and burdens that keep us from fully expressing our truest and highest Self.
Getting to a place where I no longer restrict myself by someone else's ideas has been a long (but not) journey with many hurdles. And now that I am more confident and grounded in all that I am... I want to help others learn to break free from the weight of judgment and the (real or fancied) pressure of society.
My greatest accomplishment has been learning to love mySelf. And even as I write this I can hear the internal judgment of why I didn't say "having my children." Right?! The thing that you hear many women say when you ask them what has been their greatest accomplishment. Instantly I can respond to that thought with a loving & compassionate response... Because if I didn't learn to love mySelf in the way that I do, my children would not love their Self - and I would not be an example of what I hope for the ones that I love.
^^^ Now let's talk about the shoes ^^^. I am the one that will wear the sexy ass heels and stomp in the mud with my big ass boots. For a long time I felt like I had to choose to represent one or the other. Choose whether I was feminine or "not." This felt so fucked up. Who is to say that I am only one or the other? Today I will say I am both and everything in between. The polarity is where I find exciting and interesting moments of pure bliss. Being sexy isn't a pair of shoes and being strong isn't a pair of muddy boots. I am all things all the time. So let's rock it out in everything that feels good and shake off the judgment. Owning our light along with our darkness. Taking responsibility for our successes and our failures. Because at the end of the day, I believe we are here to feel everything to the fullest.
Revive yo' Senses!